Thursday, 25 June 2026

Tossing Safety Aside

 Exactly two years ago, my friends – Sudesh Verma and Renu Kaul Verma – lost their younger son, 18-year-old Advaitha, in a drowning accident in Pawna Lake near Lonavala. In the aftermath of that tragedy, they realised that they were a miniscule percentage of families dealing with this anguish – drowning claims well over 35,000 deaths a year, and nearly 70 per cent are accidental.

The Vermas are now helming a campaign against death by drowning, through the Hemant Bala Advaitha Foundation, to raise awareness about drowning tragedies. They have drawn attention to the structural and institutional failures like lack of safety gear, safety systems/protocols and even rescue teams the day Advaitha drowned.

One and a half years later, the family of Yuvraj Mehta, the young software engineer whose car fell into a water-filled ditch in Noida in January this year, saw this being repeated. The rescue teams had five hours to save Yuvraj. They couldn’t. Another young life was lost to overall cluelessness and lack of preparation.

Sometime in 2016, after a spate of selfie deaths, the Maharashtra state tourism department and the Mumbai police had announced they would set up 16 no-selfie zones. However, according to this The Times of India report, things never moved beyond the discussion stage. A list was not even put together.

But is everything always about the authorities? Don’t we, as individuals, need to value and ensure our personal safety? The question does appear callous, but it needs to be asked.

And this needs to be said: being cavalier about safety has become part of Indian culture; it starts with individual actions and gradually gets collectivised. So even the authorities do little more than making the right noises. They know no one will demand accountability. Until tragedy strikes. And some time later, the outrage will die down and everyone will forget about it about the systemic issues.

An oft-trotted explanation is that India is a developing country, lacking the resources to invest in the necessary infrastructure and systems. But why does this not hold true for other countries with similar levels of development?

Related to this, is the argument that given the low education and high poverty levels, people lack awareness and are so caught up with basic survival that safety is an indulgence, if not luxury.

Even if one concedes this bizarre logic, it can only be in the context of overcrowded low income areas and slums. How does this explain the complete disdain for safety measures in middle class and upper middle class neighbourhoods, by people who have three or four generations of education  behind them?

When such people remodel their flats in which builders (government and private) have given three exits in a way that leaves only one exit, is it any surprise that a hotel in Hauz Rani in Delhi or a residential building in Lucknow had only one exit, trapping people during a blaze?

What can explain people dangling helmets from the crook of their elbows, to be donned only when a traffic constable is in sight? Or not donning the seat belt because, hey, I’m just driving to the neighbourhood market? Many car models now beep if the driver is not wearing a seat belt. So a market has emerged for buckles that can be inserted into the seat belt slot in order to stop the beeping. The mind boggles at things people will do – at additional expense – to avoid being safe.

This study by scholars from the All India Institute of Medical Sciences and IIT Kanpur says India accounts for the highest number of selfie accidents and deaths. Another study  puts  a number to this: 59.8 per cent of selfie deaths are from India. People have fallen into rivers or waterfalls while taking selfies or pictures despite warnings from locals, been run over by trains, electrocuted while standing on top of trains and burnt when posing in front of burning buildings. Can authorities patrol every stretch of water bodies and train tracks? Will policemen and fire fighters have the bandwidth to notice and chase away someone who is taking a selfie before a burning building? Pilots of private aircraft often complain about politicians forcing them to fly in adverse weather conditions because the public cannot be kept waiting.As I said earlier, the mind boggles. 

After every tragedy, fingers are pointed at officials for taking bribes to turn a blind eye to various violations – from traffic rules to far more serious offences like flouting construction and fire safety norms. But it is always the offender who initiates the bribe, pleading for leniency. A neighbour who complains about a building violation is mocked and ignored (if not browbeaten); RWAs turn a blind eye. And then everyone outrages when some disaster happens.

Laws and the judicial system are blamed for cases dragging on for years on end, and for offenders and complicit officials coming out on bail. But there's no getting away from the fact that the initial offence was committed by the individual who offered a bribe to bypass a rule.

The Vermas have decided not to forget, but to work towards change. Apart from making authorities accountable, they are also working with schools and sensitising students about drowning accidents. Starting young is perhaps the right way. Because we need to change the safety culture in the country.

It is not going to be easy. Children learn something in school and go home and see their parents doing the exact opposite. Religious organisations can be effective in spreading the message, but public religious events flout every safety regulation that is there on the books. Authorities handle them with kid gloves to avoid the charge of `hurting religious sentiments’.

But we have to keep at it. Others need to take up similar initiatives, relating to traffic rules, building rules, fire safety rules. The change may come perhaps only in the next generation or the one after that. Better late than never.  

2 comments:

Nikita Mathur said...

I feel the same as you do. Numerous incidents where safety was grossly neglected by the 'victims.' The victory lap by RCB. Why did people take their children to an overcrowded event just to catch a 5 seconds glimpse of the cricket team? Made any difference to their lives? Yes. Thry lost their lives. My heart pains when I see people losing lives out of their own stupidity (pardon me for the choice of my words). Majority of the road accidents could be avoided, why do we want to go to religious celebrations when we know the population of India, why do we need selfie from the closest possible point near a waterfall???

Anonymous said...

In a country like India such tragedies have become a routine. Death is just a number.

Kitne gaye? Bach gaya ya gaya? People ask these questions, and after confirming the number of dead and injured just move on. They stopped and asked. Duty over.

Smart phones have introduced a new culture. We have become a nation of voyeurs. Majority of those who happen to be on the spot immediately fish out their smart phones and start shooting the accident like voyeurs enjoying a X rated peep show. They avoid rushing to physically assist the victims. “Time waste hoga. Kapde kharab honge. If the victim is to be rushed to hospital car seat will get dirty. So will wait for others to do the needful. Police might ask questions. I have to rush home. Can’t waste time.”

Tragedy bhi tamashaa ban gayi hai. Doosare ka dard dard nahin ek tamashaa ban gaya hai.

Accidents and tragedies are discussed and recounted like neighbourhood gossip.

Hope you remember what happened in Mathura last week? A boatload of devotees drowned while singing bhajans and cruising on the Yamuna.

Watery grave it was for Krishna lovers on the Yamuna. Krishna stealing Gopis clothes while they were bathing in the Yamuna story is for romantic fools.

Here a boatload of commoners called devotees seeped in bhakti was swallowed by the Yamuna right in front of the lord’s abode. None of them were wearing a safety jacket. But can’t blame them. They like fools believed the almighty will protect them. They forgot their almighty had a heart of stone. He being just a piece of granite will not notice their drowning. Next day another boatload will be back on the Yamuna….

But aren’t we responsible for this casual approach to safety? Across India at various spots I have seen people going for boat rides with shabby safety jackets loosely flung around their shoulders. They don’t even tie the knots.
Every time they safely alight from the boat their belief that the tragedy will not strike them gets strengthened further and they merrily repeat their casual approach to safety guidelines.

People in their madness to get selfies clicked fall off cliffs, drown… madness continues. The family suffers. Emotionally gets traumatised.

No power on earth can prevent a tragedy when we disregard safety guidelines.

I spent 234 days across the country holding meetings, workshops telling youngsters and oldies alike that they must wear helmets while riding. However we are a nation where each one of us wears a helmet to avoid a challan. Not because helmet will protect us from brain injury or death.

Police se dar kar safety rules follow karte hain.

Jingagi ki koi keemat hi nahin aanki. Ek number bhi nahin hain hum. Now we don’t even know whether we are Indian citizen or not. Passport, voter ID, driving license, aadhar card, pan card, school and college certificates are not a proof of our citizenship.
Mar bhi gaye to kya?